Public Humiliation or Personal Shame?
Haven’t blogged for a while but I am filled with annoyance at the usual office life. As a veal in the fattening pens of the corporate work place, I frequently see ridiculous things that do not cease to amaze me. This is just one of many …
I have a co-worker whom frankly, I’m not thrilled with but that’s life. I don’t go out of my way to be rude, I just choose not to associate with her because she is like the Tasmanian Devil and I prefer to be chill. A few weeks ago, I heard her rant (as she usually does) about how no one picks up their print jobs and going on at length about how bad that is. After this, she proceeds to leave her print jobs at the printer for days at a time without picking them up. Each time, keeping that her indignant rant in the back of my head, I have caved in, picked up her print jobs and politely/silently brought them to her or put them on her desk. And each time, I don’t get any acknowledgement, not a “thank you” or “I’m sorry, I keep forgetting”.
This week, she printed out a copy of a customers check, an electronic funds form and her own passwords which she left for days at the printer. I waited around and finally this morning, not sure if she would be in or not, picked them up and attached a yellow sticky note saying “Please remember to pick up your print jobs. Thanks! Kimberly”.
She came in this morning to find this polite and reasonable note. She stormed downstairs to the office I was setting up a new computer in, shaking and red. She holds it in front of her saying “what is the meaning of this!?!”. I was so shocked that I may have stammered, yes I may have. I told her calmly that she had left those items at the printer for several days and I put them on her desk for her. She asked if I had given a sticky to every person who’s items were left at the printer and I said no, I had not. She said if I have a problem with her, to take it to management. *chuckled* I said I would do so and she stormed out.
This is the abbreviated version because she did raise her voice at me which I don’t deal well with. The fact that I didn’t jump up and “get ghetto” on her that second is astonishing. I keep my temper very well in check but when someone comes at me shaking, red faced with voice raised, that gives me PSD like flashbacks to my childhood and it’s not cool at all.
I drafted the following note:
“Manager”:
“Co-Worker” asked me to bring up an issue to you so per her vehement request, I am doing so. I apologize in advance for the trivial nature of this subject.
She had made loud comments a few weeks back re: people leaving their print jobs in the tray next to the printer. Over the weeks since then, she has left multiple print jobs for hours and days by the printer. I have kindly returned them to her when I have gone to pick up my print jobs in hopes she might be more diligent about picking up her own.
I observed this week that a voided check for “Customer Name” along with an EFT form and “Co-Worker’s” passwords were left in the tray. Since I frequently observed the voided check face up by the printer, I felt the right thing to do would be to take these sensitive items and put them on her desk with a friendly note to please remember to pick up her print jobs and left my name. I could have done this anonymously or printed out a note but that would be the cowardly/passive aggressive and least respectful route. I suppose I could have left those items indefinitely w/o respect to who might pick them up or how many times they may be reprinted but I felt it was better to return them.
“Co-Worker” approached me in a very agitated state and asked me if I had left a note for each person who has not been picking up their print jobs. I have honestly only observed one other person, “Other Co-Worker”, who leaves hers out. I did not leave “Other Co-Worker” a note but I have also not heard “Other Co-Worker” complain about how others need to pick up their print jobs. I indicated to “Co-Worker” that I had not, to which she replied that if I have a “problem” with her to talk to you. I do not have a “problem” with her but rather a problem with people complaining and then doing the very thing they complain about - only to get angry when you politely ask them to be more careful. My reasoning for leaving the note was a) it’s not a “personal” issue but a privacy issue and a data issue and b) it was bit trivial for management intervention. Upon further review, however, it is inappropriate to leave customers checking account information and one’s passwords for anyone could take and misuse.
We do have that spare printer if you’d like me to hook it up for “Co-Worker” and “Other Co-Worker” does have her own printer. Perhaps that might help the situation. If there is anything further you need from me, let me know. Thanks!
- Kimberly
Is this too much? My manager doesn’t return til Monday so I may rethink. I’m going to cc “Co-Worker” so that she doesn’t feel I’m doing anything behind her back. There is a strange feeling through out the workplace that I “snitch” people out. If I were that sort, I wouldn’t have left a g*ddamned note would I have?
Well, my chicken nuggets are my solice. I should finish lunch.
bye bye - k


Just wanted to say HI. I found your blog a few days ago on Technorati and have been reading it over the past few days.
Dan:
Odd question but are you a real person? I get sooo much spam!
- k
Вы попали в самую точку. В этом что-то есть и мне нравится Ваша идея. Предлагаю вынести на общее обсуждение….
“Co-Worker” approached me in a very agitated state and asked me if I had left a note for each person who has not been picking up their print jobs…..
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“Co-Worker” approached me in a very agitated state and asked me if I had left a note for each person who has not been picking up their print jobs…..
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