kimbykat: i rot at home for no man any longer! these boots were made for dancing, bitch. and these arms were made for lovin’ someone lovin’ me.

August 21, 2009
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FACT: Many women — about one out of three — have trouble reaching orgasm when having sex with a partner. (Planned Parenthood)

If you couldn’t tell from the above, I’m one of those 1 in 3 women who have difficulty reaching orgasm with a partner. I know, TMI? Maybe. But I’m not alone, I know lots of other women who have this problem too. I must say, I am sick of hearing from men that I “just haven’t met the right guy” or “he’s not doing it right”.

The fact of the matter is, I’ve had a few wonderful lovers who still weren’t able to “make me come”. Sorry, it’s not about “making me” do anything. It’s about doing what works at the time, about taking the time to try and not just expect me to do all the work and then pretend like you slaved away when really you just provided the penis.

Guys: IT’S NOT ABOUT YOU. Just stop treating us like we’re freakin’ robots that you can manipulate! Stop being jack-asses and just give us the care and attention that might actually help us get where we both want to go.

( … from protected LJ entry … )

I have to keep reminding myself. “I’m not a doormat, I’m not a doormat …”.

- k

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